Wednesday, September 07, 2011

A Little Bit of This, A Little Bit of That

This last weekend was a good one for me. Yay! :) We got to visit a bit with Brandon's brother, Tanner, and Leisha and Maylee. It was so good to see them, and see how cute Maylee is and how much she has grown. She's very good at saying "cracker". It's impressive. :) I had a blast taking their family photos & Maylee's one year old photos. Is this not the perfect one year old capture? Just about walking on her own... but still hanging on to daddy. :)

We got to hang out a little bit with the Oyler family too, which was great, since we don't get together as often as we should. :) It was fun to go out on a triple date one night to Dinosaur Brew Haus, and eat breakfast together on Labor Day. We saw June take a few steps on her own (I swear that she was born yesterday) and the kids had fun running around with Molly and Annie.

One of the highlights of my month... maybe my year... was going to the temple for my friend, Tasha. She was sealed to her husband and four sweet, adorable, children. I was so grateful that she let me be a part of that...  it was such a neat experience, and so so needed in my life right now. I can't even express what a wonderful two days I had in the temple.

One of the things that hit me the most was when they had the chance to say yes, that they want to be married to each other for time and for all eternity. I thought how neat it was that they said yes years ago, and four kids and lots of life later they still say yes. :) It made me think of my relationship with Brandon ... how grateful I am for him. How if I had the chance to say yes to him again... after 16 years, 3 kids, 6 pregnancies, ups and downs, highs and lows, lots of loving and some fighting too... I wouldn't even hesitate. It would be a yes, and I would mean it even more than when I said yes the first time.

A couple of my amazingly amazing friends (did I mention that they are amazing??) are going to come have a painting party with me for my kitchen. I am so excited to have it done, but I still don't know what color to paint it. I think I did the wrong floor, but I don't know, because really, anything I think of goes with the floor I have, but it's just not quite right. I don't know what would have been right, though.

I am so anxious to get things nicer with my house lately that it feels like I'm nesting or something. But NO, I am not nesting, and not joking about it, especially in light of the facebook controversy that has been going on lately. (To bring awareness to breast cancer (ha. ha hahaha. tell me how this brings awareness in any way) people are posting "secret" status updates about how many weeks along they are and what they are craving... decided from their birth month and day. It's created uproar among the infertile community, which I get... Anyway, if I were to help spread breast cancer awareness, I'd write a facebook status that says, hey, check your breasts for lumps. Anyone can get breast cancer... women and men. Donate to help find the cure. Hug your grandma who is a breast cancer survivor. Be grateful for benign lumps. Be grateful for life.)

Wow, that was a tangent. Is it even okay to say that much inside parenthesis? ;)

Back to my house... I have too much stuff, and I started really looking at my decorations. Some of them are like 15 years old. I started pulling stuff down yesterday and putting what I don't want in a box. When I look in that box it looks like junk that I would turn my nose up at if I saw it at DI. I'd say, who would buy that?? Ugh. I don't know why I still have some of it. I guess it's memories... that's what Brandon says anyway. I asked him if he's tired of me, since he's had me around for so long. He said that he'll keep me... cause of the memories and stuff. ;)

Gosh, I'm chatty today. I'm supposed to be working on photography stuff, and I am... I'm just taking breaks to blab on here every once in awhile when things pop in my head. I think I'll put some music on and quit writing. I've probably said way too many embarrassing things already. ;)

10 comments:

Kate said...

Blabbing on my blog is pretty much what I do with my life. I like your blabbing. Good post. :)

Charlotte said...

Ha. I got a message from a random "friend" on facebook about that. I had to read it 6 times to even figure out what she was trying to explain, and once I understood I said, "That's the dumbest thing I've ever wasted 6 minutes of my life on." Your status idea is far better. :)

Rachel Holloway said...

I couldn't agree more about the whole cancer awareness thing! lame-o!

I always love your "blabbing". I love your insights. I love your take on life. And I am grateful you share it. :) Your pictures, as ALWAYS, are gorgeous.

p.s. are you still interested in our little discussion? If not, totally fine. But if you are I want to try to get the word out. Let me know!

Alison said...

I like your your "blabbing" too! I totally agree with the Breast cancer thing. I was ANNOYED...probably the infertility stuff but...it was dumb!

Mike, Sha, Kenna, Kate, & Garrett said...

She is a cute baby girl!

We need to head to Lowes and get some paint chips and bring them home and decide.

I have been going through my decor too and deciding what I don't want anymore. Most of it!;) haha! If only I had a $$ tree to replace it all.

Felicia said...

I just love you Mindy! LOL at your "facebook status". I think I'll walk around all week thinking "Hey, check your breasts for lumps" in my head.

I feel the same way about my house. I'm anxious to move to a new one and start over.

I can't wait to see your kitchen.

B-Blogit said...

Love the plant photo!

Brenda said...

That's a really pretty plant picture! Where is it?

Don't worry so much about having a perfectly decorated house. I have the same worries, and then I realize my family (and people visiting) would rather have a comfortable, homey house than a perfectly clean and decorated one.

Kim said...

I love your ranting. You say exactly what I have going through my head but don't have the guts to say out loud. I agree whole heartedly on the breast cancer awareness thing.

Marci said...

ahhh i love you, i just do. we are good people to be friends together...did that make sense?
this friend is very excited to come and have a paint party. we both are! we could even come and help pick out paint, we both are very decisive about that and it doesn't take long to pick out paint.
i love your rambling...especially that whole thing about brandon because, you know what? i feel the same way about my old man.;D
anndd...if you are going to texas to see rachel you are a bum! i want to go!!!